Never settle for the answers and explanations that don’t land quite right for you, regardless of the level of ‘expertise’ the person sharing may have.
Experience is valid, real, and helpful.
But experience is rooted in the past.
A different time.
A different person.
A different situation.
We don’t know everything there is to know about anything. Not even ‘the experts’ do. New insights, discoveries, and information come out every day. The people you pay good money to help you… the ones who figured out how to heal or become successful for themselves… they don’t know everything, and they definitely can’t say with any certainty what’s right for YOU. Especially if they’re not taking the time to truly understand who you are, what you’ve been through, and what you’re working to create.
You are the only person who knows for sure.
So be fiercely committed to honoring what feels true.
Don’t be afraid to keep asking the hard questions, following the intuitive nudges, and seeking out the answers and information that will guide you to where you want to be. No matter how many people tell you otherwise. No matter how many times you’re told to move in another direction.
Stay fiercely committed to your growth and healing, because no one else can do it for you. And trust yourself to navigate that path in the way that’s right for you, no matter what anyone else has to say.